DAY 50
Mar. 20: The practice for today is
CHOICE. Be aware of any jokes or remarks that
show disrespect toward ethnic groups, women or men, classes of people, religious
groups, gays or lesbians. By being
considerate of every person's dignity and by choosing not to participate in
disrespectful communication, I am contributing to a nonviolent society.
"The soul is dyed the color of its
thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and
can bear the light of day. The
content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you do is who you
become. Your integrity is your
destiny - it is the light that guides your way." -Heraclitus
Do you
think the statement "We always have a choice" is true? Do you ever
think that you don't have a choice? Do you ever think you must be
violent? Can you always choose nonviolence?
Today: I
will
write about the choices I face
throughout the day and on how they translate my commitment to nonviolence into
my thoughts, words and actions.
DAY 51
Mar. 21: The practice for today is
ADVOCACY. "When someone stands up to violence"
says Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh, "a force for change is released. Every action for peace requires someone
to exhibit the courage to challenge violence and inspire love." Thich Nhat Hanh's life is about
nonviolence, and ours can be too.
When we choose to
be an advocate for nonviolence and decide right now that we will be the one to
stop the violence, we release peace into the world.
Today: I will be an ally. Without blaming or
judging others, I will listen from my heart, and speak out with love for those
who are disrespected, abused or not listened to. I will find out how I can be an
advocate in current conflicts, such as in The Sudan or
Tibet.
DAY 52
Mar. 22: The practice for today is
EQUALITY. Have you ever noticed the groups of
people who are under-represented in your activities and lifestyle? The Constitution
of the United States says that all people are equal, and all people have the
right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Do you think everyone
in our community is treated equally? If not, what can you do to change
this?
"Unless man is committed to the belief
that all mankind are his brothers, then he labors in vain and hypocritically in
the vineyards of equality." -Adam
Clayton Powell, Jr.
When you recognize as your equals those with whom
you disagree, true opportunities for dialogue emerge - opportunities that are
denied when you think of yourself as better than, or less than, others. Martin Buber wrote about the
"I-Thou" connection, the ultimate equality, and the intention from which
nonviolence originates.
Today: I will be mindful of ways that I see
myself as better than others. When
I listen to people today, I will listen to them as equals; when I speak, I will
speak to others as equals. I will
enrich my life by considering how I can invite different people and unusual
experiences into my life today.
DAY 53
Mar. 23: The practice for today is
ACTION. "Each of us can work to change a small
portion of events and in the total of all those acts will be written the history
of this generation" said Robert Kennedy. Imagine what actions Gandhi,
Martin Luther King, Jr. and Robert Kennedy would be taking if they were among us
today.
Truly nonviolent action is centered in love
and compassion. Actions speak
louder than words, it is said, yet it is not so much loudness as clarity and
truth that matters; a gentle action can be far more powerful than a forceful
one. So, too, the smallest actions
- those closest to home - can be more meaningful than those expressed from a
distance.
Today: I will explore actions from the heart I
can take today to express my commitment to peace and nonviolence - in both my
personal life and in the public domain.
I will find a way to make one small change that will contribute to the
well being of my home, school, workplace or community.
DAY 54
Mar. 24: The practice for today is
GIVING. Practice generously giving by sharing
time, talent, energy and material resources with others. Whatever you give, do it without
thinking of getting anything in return. Do it as a service, not reluctantly, but
with joy. That is a real gift. If you expect something in return, it is
not a gift, but a contract.
Whatever you give, be sure it is from the
heart:
"Not in what we give, but what we
share,
For the gift without the giver is
bare."
Gifts are not just material things. Consider any harmful behavior you might
have. Changing the behavior, or
giving it up, could be a gift to those who love and care about you.
Today: I will clean out my closet, bureau
drawers, or garage and give away things I'm not using. I will give my time to a volunteer
organization and my financial resources to a cause that supports and practices
nonviolence. I will consider giving
up some harmful or negative behavior I may have.
DAY 55
Mar. 25: The practice for today is
RESPONSIBILITY. The quality of my community starts with
me. I take responsibility wherever
I am. Whatever we
are today is the result of what we have thought, spoken, and done in all the
previous moments before now. The
responsibility for both present and future is in our own hands. By living right
today, tomorrow will be right. This
applies to our physical, emotional and spiritual life; we each have the ultimate
responsibility for our choices.
Today: I will pick up trash that is not my own,
whether at home, at the office or on the street. If there is a conflict present in
my life, I will take responsibility for my part in the conflict and work toward
a nonviolent resolution.
DAY 56
Mar. 26: The practice for today is
SELF-SUFFICIENCY. People need the dignity of work and the
opportunity to provide for themselves and their families. Economic self-sufficiency is a
requirement for a nonviolent world.
"Interdependence is and ought to be as much the
ideal of man as self-sufficiency." -Gandhi
For Gandhi, economic self-sufficiency -
symbolized by the spinning wheel - was a vital element of independence from
colonial rule and from oppressive economic conditions.
Today: I will discover the satisfaction of
making something for myself instead of buying something - and from spending time
in self-sufficient quiet reflection or meditation. If I know someone who is looking
for employment, I will offer to assist them with a resume, an application,
making phone calls, or practice
interviewing